Lesson Learned

This past weekend I had plans for a girls night to go samba dancing. Upon hearing that (let’s call him) “The Leech” was going to be there I quickly decided against it. The Leech was a guy I briefly dated a year ago. Things were moving so quickly between us, I needed to slow things down. Let’s just say that he didn't take the news very well. He was such a jerk that he made me feel so bad about myself, never in my life had a guy made me feel so low. It took me weeks to finally realize that I deserve so much more. Now that was a lesson learned.

 It’d been over a year since I’d last seen him so I had to ask myself why would I cancel on a fun night out with my girls?  Till this day I look back and I wonder how I dated such an a$$.

 Anyway just as I forgot about "The Leech" there he was, checking me out! I must say that I felt good, I felt empowered. Between the music and dancing I was having such an amazing time with my girls that I could have cared less if he was there or not. But I must admit that there’s no sweeter revenge than being happy and looking fabulous while doing it.

Moral of the story:  Enjoy life for you and never compromise who you are for anyone. Always be true to you!

P.S.

I will be updating this post with photos of my outfit that night